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1-If you have a relationship that has some sour grape to it, there are only three ways to make it better. To put it simply there are only three possible solutions for people problems.

2-That should catch your attention. Because it covers quite a chunk of life, that makes you have red eyeballs worries and frustrations cause by your kids, marrage, boss, neighbors, roommate, nosy acquaintances, and the bullies that shove in front of you at the check out stand.

3-Here are the three choices: One: Change the situation Two: Change the person. Three: Change yourself.

4-Let us consider each one. let’s start with the first. Change the situation. If you don’t like the boss, quit your job. If your spouse cause hurricanes of rage in your mind instead of making harps play in your heart, then get rid of him or her. If getting along with the teacher is like clawing through a jungle of barbed wire then drop out. Or if Mom and Pop are always on your back, then hit the streets. Run away from home. That is to say that if the association with another person has bad overtones, break out, split, disappear. That may be the best solution in some cases. Maybe. But there are deeper considerations. Like, what are the consequences? Or what are you doing to yourself?

5-I had just finshed up lunch with Trygbe Wage, great name I know. Tryg is the director of Raise up The Bar a therapeutic center for rehabing felons. They come to Tryg’s place with an average of ten arrests each and eleven long months spent in juvenile correctional institutions. All these kids know how to do, when they have a bad human encounter is to act crazy and run away, Tryg told me. After they’re with us awhile, they realize how dumb that is. Running away doesn’t work.

6-Another time a friend was talking to me about his divorce. We found that marriage was different than going together. Little things became big things. We got real good at making each other miserable. Every day was a drag. So we split. It wasn’t easy, but we did it. Life, I thought, would be all rosy after that.There would be no more tears and hassles. Life would be a lark! Ah, sweet freedom!

7-But it wasn’t quite that way at all. What I thought would be freedome was a long state of remorse. I could not get rid of the feeling of guilt and shame and the sense of failing. I know that those were a separate set of problems, that should’ve been dealt with differently. But there was a feeling chewing away inside telling me that happiness is not built by messing up a persons life.

8-Do I still hold myself responsible? Or course not I have put that all behind me now. But I learned that solving bad scenes with other people doesn’t always mean breaking it off. For me it did not do much for the real problem.And that was me. I took that right along with me. Maybe the result would be the same today. I’m no sure. I’d deal with it a lot differently.

9-A woman once told mehow she would skip from job to job trying to find the right situation.People really got to me she said. Criticism, complaints, moaning, groaning, it seemed that’s all I heard all day. I just couldn’t get it off my mind at night. So I kept moving, only to find out the names and faces changed, but not the humans. Most of the old frustrations would come up yet again just dressed in different cloths. So it dawned on me one day that the problem was me, not them. I’m doing something about that now. I think I’m going to make it.

10-Does that mean a divorce or change of jobs should be ruled out as a way out of unhappy attachments? No, only you can decide what is best for you. All you’re getting here are some insights and ideas to use for guidelines. Running away might be the easy answer, but not always the best. If you have a marriage, job, or friendship that has some good parts to it then consider another option for smoothing things out.

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